lyraklaude:

I know tumblr always preaches about healthy relationships but this is a daily reminder that your partner isn’t supposed to be your therapist. your partner is supposed to be there for you, provide you with care and understanding and support where it’s needed, but they’re not supposed to guide you mentally or emotionally through your hard times, be your daily counselor, teach you how to deal with trauma, always know what to say, put things in perspective for you, or always find the time to help you through a difficult day.

and it’s not healthy to put that kind of expectations on them or act as if this is what a healthy relationship must look like.